Thursday, October 20, 2016

A Letter To My Soulmate, My Bestie

Maybe our girlfriends are our soulmates and guys are just people to have fun with. 

 - Candace Bushnell, Sex and the City

A letter to my best friend:

There will never be enough words to describe how grateful I am to have you in my life. We have been through so much together. You are my go-to person for EVERYTHING! 

Through what has been a roller coaster ride of a life, you have been my one constant person. You have never bailed on me, and I appreciate that more than you may ever know. When my entire world has come crashing down, you have been there to let me fall apart and then put me back together. You are proof that one person can make a difference and restore hope when it feels like there is none. I know I sound dramatic, but you have seen me at my rock bottom. And together, we have climbed our way out of the depths of hell.

We have so many incredible memories together and I can't imagine the ones we will continue to make. All my best stories include you. Who else will send me absolutely inappropriate picture messages while I am at work? You can sense when I am having a shit day from 20 miles away and BAM! There is some insanely funny picture, and I am laughing out loud. I don't believe anyone will ever understand me the way you do - and I don't think I would want them to. Our friendship runs on a strange vibe that most are incapable of understanding.

You know you're truly best friends with someone when our families question our sexuality. Yes, I will always be your lesbian lover when some creep hits on you in the bar! I know you will do the same for me.

You have taught me so much about love, trust, raising kids, cooking, drinking, and life in general. I am the person I am today because of your influence. You are never afraid to tell me your thoughts or opinions. The truth may hurt sometimes, but it never stings as bad when I hear it from you.

Thank you for being you, and I love you for all that you are and all that you do. You are my best friend, my unbiological sister, my soulmate, my person. Most importantly, you are the crown to my monster!

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